In my post,
To Pube or Not to Pube, I posed a question: Are you bathing your sexy parts the way your mother taught you, or the proper way? Continue reading
Posted in Health, Sex |
Tagged childhood, Christianity, European imperialism, Francophobia, genitals, health, Licking the Spoon, masturbation, misogyny, missionary position, original sin, Pardon my French, procreation, pubic hair, sex, smegma, Victorian era |
Just for fun: Here’s a Contributor’s Note I wrote in a
memoir workshop recently. The assignment was to play with a creative version of what might appear in the back if we were ever to publish a book. Continue reading
I recently flew cross-country to attend my high school reunion. Now is there a cooler year to be the graduating class of or WHAT?
Posted in Health, Relationships |
Tagged anti-war, boundaries, civil rights, feminism, flower children, Licking the Spoon, memoir, memories, Politics, progress, racism, relationships, sex |
That’s what my ex, who was a number of years younger than me, said when I jokingly asked him if I was a cougar.
Posted in Love, Relationships, Sex |
Tagged attraction, charm, cougar, Dating, jaguar, Licking the Spoon, literary event, Louis CK, martinis, maturity, memoir, panther, Robin Thicke, Sean Connery, seasoning, sexual experience, writing, youth |
Answer: My age.
Posted in Health, Sex |
Tagged aging, attractive, birthdays, grandmothers, granny panties, karaoke, kick scooters, leopard prints, Licking the Spoon, martinis, massage, salsa dancing, self-esteem, sexy, Spanx, support garments, tangas, thongs, vibrant, Wine, youthful |
Ever fantasize about going to a dude ranch? Me neither. So how did I come to find myself standing in line, waiting my turn to have lunch ladled onto my tin home-on-the-range style plate?
Posted in Food, Nature, Relationships, Sex |
Tagged BBQ, chili, cowboy, dude ranch, fantasy, harvest moon, hayride, home on the range, horseback riding, horses, International Chili Society, Licking the Spoon, Mexican-American, ranch hand, Rankin Ranch, tryst |
The article about naked vegan cooking was short and a little cheesy, but informative enough, I thought. Until I noticed something more sinister eyeing me from between the baba ghanouj and sweet corn fritters…
Posted in Food, Health, Relationships, Sex |
Tagged British, cats, college, communal living, cooking, England, Licking the Spoon, Manchester, Naked Vegan Cooking, nostalgia, nudism, nudity, racism, sex-phobia, sexism, stereotypes, Susan Tweit, unclean, unsanitary |
“I don’t want to do this, but I have to,” he said. “Maybe at least you’ll get a book out of it”…
Posted in Health, Love, Relationships, Sex |
Tagged abandonment, attachment, breaking up, childhood, childhood damage, Erick Erickson, grief, intimacy, Licking the Spoon, psychic wounds, psychosocial development, recovery, teaching |
During the holidays, I was invited to the party of a friend of a friend. My friend had introduced me to this man because she thought we might hook up…
Licking the Spoon is the title of my book in progress about food, sex and relationship. It’s also my metaphor for living life with gusto… Continue reading
Posted in Food, Health, Love, Nature, Relationships, Sex, Uncategorized, Writing |
Tagged books, children, dance, exercise, finance, Friends, gardening, holidays, Licking the Spoon, music, orgasm, pets, self-esteem, self-pleasuring, sensuality, sex toys, Wine |